he said HER name!
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he said HER name!
| Fri, 06-25-2004 - 3:10pm |
So my boyfriend and I have had some rocky times...but we're working on getting it back together. He has lived in this city for 6 years and goes to a bar twice a week. The bartender there, Emily, he talks about her all the time, he fixes her car and she cuts his hair, gives him free beer and food etc. Through the whole time we were dating before he never took me there when she was there. I started asking to go there when he wanted to go out to eat, so we went last week, the Friday before my birthday. He flirted with her and told stories about us...and left me out of them completely! It was like he told stories about some girl, instead of the girl he almost married and had all these wonderful funny experiences with. (ie. this girl i used to be with talked in her sleep too..) He wouldn't touch me or look at me when she was around. That was annoying, on top of all the other times he talks about her and the way he lights up when she is around, even though she's married. The final straw was on midnight, when my birthday started, I went over to him and laid on top of him. I said Brian wake up and wish me happy birthday! He turned his head to face me and said Happy Birthday Emily! He swears he doesn't feel anything for her, but he continues to go there twice a week and i still can't get over him saying her name. I've told him how I felt, and I know it would be worng to ask him to not go there as much, but I'm so hurt by it. Especially when he specifically leaves out going there when we're talking about what we did that day. That gives me cause to worry that he's hiding something. How do I get past it and trust him?

What do you mean it would be wrong to ask him to stop going there? Where is your self worth?
Lose the loser honey.
No man who cares about you would behave this way. Period.