he says he loves me but....

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Registered: 06-18-2007
he says he loves me but....
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Mon, 06-18-2007 - 7:53pm
ok, there is this guy and we have had an on off relationship. WEll he has never broken up with me but i broke up with him at least twice and he still "loves" me. i just dont no.. i mean he never acts like he does and he is always being a dick to me in front of his friends.. but then when we hang out alone he is so great.. well the real problem is that he says he wants to marry me and i just think i am too young.. i dont even no if i am truly in love with him.... i mean i have fun with him and i like him a lot but i cant see myself spending the rest of my life with hin. my friends have told me just to focus on the now instead of later. but he basically is asking me to marry him and that sort of thing just dosent go away!! wat should i do?????
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 8:34pm

>>but he basically is asking me to marry him and that sort of thing just dosent go away!! <<

Actually, it does go away if you firmly tell him that you're not interested.

Tell him that you don't know if you love him. Tell him that him treating you badly infront of his friends is unacceptable. Tell him that you're too young to be married and tell him that an "on and off" relationship is not the type which is destined for marriage. Spell it out to him.

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:27pm

keep telling him you are too young...or that he doesn't treat you nice.

i'd tell him i never want to see him again based on what you wrote.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:39pm

Welcome to the board daredevil898,


Have you addressed the way he treats you in front of his friends?