He says....What do I say?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2004
He says....What do I say?
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Fri, 09-21-2007 - 10:14am

How do you reply to this statement? "If I ever cheat on you, I'll tell you". Until this was said I had no reason to

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2007
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 10:41am
I suppose it depends on context and tone. Did he say it out of the blue? Sarcastically?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2004
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 10:53am
out-of-the blue, which took me by surprise
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 11:38am

Welcome to the board dreamiiz,


That is a really weird thing for him to just say out of the blue. I would ask him why he said that. I think that is about all you can do.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 2:29pm

Maybe something happened to him, or he heard something that day, to make him think about people cheating in general?

If he cheated on you, wouldn't you want to know? I definitely don't think he's considering cheating on you. It was just a simple statement made to let you know that he's not keeping secrets from you.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 2:44pm

No, don't be concerned. He's telling you that he won't do a thing behind your back.