He sleeps on the couch bc he says my bed hurts his back
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|Tue, 11-19-2013 - 4:10pm|
My boyfriend of 6 months sleeps on the couch and not in the bed with me. He says it's bc my bed hurts his back and the couch is more comfortable. I might sleep with him on the couch 1 night a week. But he usually says he's hot and doesn't want me to sleep close to him. It really hurts my feelings that we sleep in seperate places. We barely see each other during the day and have 3 kids between us so we rarely have any alone time. When I tell him my feelings about this issue, he doesn't give it much thought and says I need to deal with it. That maybe if we get a different bed he'll start sleeping with me again. We've only been living together for 4 months and 2.5 of those months he's slept on the couch. He can go days with cuddling or having much physical contact with me. Where as I love to give and get affection. It makes me feel unwanted and I do not like feeling this way. I don't know what to do? Should I just get used to sleeping alone?