Is he still into me?

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Registered: 11-19-2011
Is he still into me?
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Sun, 11-20-2011 - 12:16am

I am 32 y.o woman in a 5 yr old relation with 25 y.o guy. We do not live with each other.

This all started around a month back when we had a silly argument. Basically when i am upset I usually shut my self up (which is not unusual) and give us a breather. After a few days we usually discuss the issues and almost everytime the arguments are a cause of the pent-up frustrations over a period of time and then try and sort out our worries.

Although this time my bf has not bothered to call me and when I send him an sms

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Registered: 11-19-2011
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 12:27am
typo : (we dont* argue a lot)
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 1:06am

Hi Mausmi3, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 11-19-2011
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 1:41am
Thanks true.blue.strine. U have really been helpful and igiven me an insight to where I was going wrong. I never thought in this angle. But I get your point and I totally understand.
This was the first time in 5 yrs that we went w/o talking for 3 weeks. Usually we sort out things within a couple of "days", but as you mentiones couples of days is also "unacceptable".
I will definitely keep our words in mind - "couple of hours" is it.
Thanks for the sound advise.
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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 12:36pm

Since he didn't hear from you in 3 weeks, he probably assumed you were finished with him, and he probably moved on.

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Registered: 07-17-2009
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 1:31pm

Hello,

In my option, I don't think he is really into you. and also it is more hurtful if you make an effort getting in contact in any ways

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Registered: 11-19-2011
Mon, 11-21-2011 - 10:23pm
u r right fissatore, the relationship has run out its course.

btwn we did meet and talk and have realised there is nothing more left because due to some unavoidable circumstances we both cannot solemnize this relationship.