He stopped texting

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2011
He stopped texting
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Mon, 11-28-2011 - 2:37pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 3:00pm

You're confusing me w/ whether you have actually had 2 or 4 dates, but if you've only had a few dates w/ someone and they stop answering your texts, emails or phone messages, it's a sign that he doesn't want to go out w/ you any more but doesn't have the nerve to actually tell you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 3:06pm

Hon, having someone disappear for no apparent reason is just the worst thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2011
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 3:06pm

I can't believe I'm so obsessed over this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 11:49pm

Get some pride in yourself and stop texting him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2006
Sun, 12-04-2011 - 1:53pm
Yeah it is their way of saying they're done. Don't contact him anymore if he doesn't contact you. I have a 'test text,' method when I suspect they've lost interest. I text them, or even call them, one or two times more and then if I don't hear back I know they're done. Sounds like you've done the 'test texting.'