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He thinks I cheated
| Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:24pm |
Well my bofriend of seven months broke up with me a month ago saying he knows I cheated on him three months ago.
Long story short!
| Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:24pm |
Well my bofriend of seven months broke up with me a month ago saying he knows I cheated on him three months ago.
Long story short!
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Your relationship wasn't as great as you think if he could discard you over something so unfounded.
I think you really need to start taking the advice you're getting rather than for waiting for one person to have the answer you're looking for.
Thanks for posting.
Welcome to the board winnmp,
So he's talking himself into his insecurities instead of believing you?
I also think you should listen to the advice you've been getting to stay away from him. There is something very wrong with a man who invents scenarios where his partner cheats on him, and then convinces himself that they're true. He is not mentally or emotionally stable.
If you move forward with him , this will happen again - make no mistake about that. He will never trust you, and you will always be jumping through hoops trying to prove a negative. That can't be done. I'm sorry I'm not giving you the answer you want to hear, but this man has a serious problem. Plain old garden variety insecurity does not make people dump their partners over a perceived wrongdoing when they have
Within the last three months, he has tried to change his "ways".
Don't look at this as a single episode, look at the pattern of his relationships, and the pattern of his behavior with you.
Has he usually broken up with his girl friends after a few months?
That's the thing, He doesn't do any of those things!
You've only been dating him for 7 months. The kind of control issues that you are beginning to see don't usually happen early in the relationship because controllers would never be able to hook a woman if they did that early on. They wait until you are very attached to them and then the controlling behavior begins. You also mentioned that it kills him that you work with mostly men. This is not normal. His unreasonable jealousy and insecurity are not proof that he loves you, it's just proof that's he's got a serious problem.
He is still punishing you for something you did not do, and for which he has no evidence. He's got you right where he wants you. Once he deems you've suffered enough, he'll agree to see you and you'll be so careful not to upset him again. That's why you are so confused about his behavior. He is manipulating you over something he invented! I have no doubt that he will want you back, but
Why should you working in a place where there are mostly men make him feel insecure???
Sounds like a really bad relationship to me.
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