He thinks I cheated

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Registered: 03-18-2008
He thinks I cheated
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:24pm

Well my bofriend of seven months broke up with me a month ago saying he knows I cheated on him three months ago.


Long story short!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 7:48pm

I want to thank everyone for their replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 10:21pm
So you are ok with weaning him off of you? If he's not ready to see you, he's not ready to work on the relationship.
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Registered: 06-30-2002
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 10:26pm

Arrrgh!


 


"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."


&nbs

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 1:48pm
So basically you're saying, "I want to try to get him back.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 3:03pm

Your boyfriend has a form of paranoia. It is unfortunate, because during a paranoic attack he lost his contact with reality and simply believes you cheated. Nothing you do or say will be able to convince him otherwise. Although he has many wonderful qualities, he does have an illness and you should be aware of it and be aware that this could happen again. It has nothing to do with you, but with what's going on inside of him. Unless he faces this and realizes that something is wrong here, it is very possible that another bout of this will take place.


I have no idea what he will do about calling or not for your birthday, but I do believe that you should re-think the entire situation carefully.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 03-18-2008
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 4:45pm

This board is awsome.

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Registered: 06-16-2007
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 11:41pm

I think the Point is that there's something wrong with Him, not You.


You can try all different kinds of "strategies" to "win him back," but is that really the kind of relationship you want?

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