Is he tired of me or what?
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Is he tired of me or what?
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 12:00am |
I'm a 20 year old living with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years, and a daughter who is 16 months old. Before i began working, everything was great! He would cook, clean, and was more romantic than any guy I had been with before. Then when the stress of supporting a girlfriend and child was becoming too much for him, we both decided that it would be good for me to work part-time to bring in extra income. Well, I started working 3 months ago, and ever since he acts like he has no interest in speaking to me. He has always been very quiet guy, but could talk to me for hours on end. Now he only opens his mouth to tell me the baby needs a diaper change or to ask when I'm going to make him something to eat. Every time the guys from work call and need a ride somewhere or want him to go out with them, he jumps in the car and takes off. But when I need milk or laundry detergent he throws a fit about how he's tired from work. So I have to run to the store and take the baby with me because he says he needs a nap and can't possibly watch her. He once told me that he works harder than I do so I should be the one cooking and cleaning and taking care of our daughter. He complains that he doesn't like the guys at work very much and yet he's reluctant to say no when they need something. When i need somthing he says I can afford it myself and don't need his money. He snaps at me anytime I mention how insensitive he is acting.How could me having a job cause him to act so indifferent to me all the time?

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