he wants me he wants me not?

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Registered: 10-05-2004
he wants me he wants me not?
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 6:27pm
HELP!!!!

I am in a serious relationship with the man of my dreams. Or so I thought. Everything between us is practically perfect. Except one thing. SEX. When we first started dating I was pregnant, so I figured that was why we were not having sex. That was 1 year ago. We have had sex a few times....very few. When we have had sex it is good. We have talked about it many times, he says he wants me but his actions say different. He says he is scared of not making me feel good. Now whenever I mention sex or the lack of it, he just gets defensive, and very angry and starts saying things like...if I want out of the relationship I should just tell him. I don't think he wants out. He is constantly telling me that he loves me and wants to be with me forever.

I don't know what to do. I am a sex-a-holic, and he never wants it. He makes me so happy in every other way. But I don't think I can live a sex-less life.

PLEASE HELP!!!!