He wants to take a break....or he doesn't so confused

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Registered: 06-06-2008
He wants to take a break....or he doesn't so confused
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Sun, 03-04-2012 - 8:49pm

So about a week ago me and my bf got into an argument over our child and how she makes such a mess and wastes food (she is 2 years old),

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Registered: 12-22-2007

Tecnochick, there seems to be a few problems going on in the relationship.

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Registered: 06-06-2008

Everyone has finacial problems, ours are no different, my views are I do my best to pay my bills some months are going to be harder then others, his view is everything has to be paid no matter what.

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Registered: 05-20-2009

In all your years of dating, no one ever wanted a break from you?

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Registered: 06-06-2008

I agree that argueing in front of children is not a good example, and that was the first time we have and i felt terrible that she saw it.

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Registered: 06-06-2008
And I would never want her to stay with someone who walks all over her, it is why i am here trying to seek some advice on the whole situation, to either better things in my relationship or move on, she loves her father and I will do anything to keep her happy.
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Registered: 05-20-2009

"Wishing" gets you nothing.

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Registered: 09-21-2011

Sometimes the best thing we can do for our children is leave their father. Your daughter is 2, its a lot easier on her now than it will be if you leave when she is older. And he sounds like my ex, he doesn;lt want a partner he wants a mother. He is not going to change, you have to decide if this is the way you want your life to be.