He WAS a virgin, now he's freaked.
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He WAS a virgin, now he's freaked.
| Mon, 12-10-2007 - 9:15pm |
BACKGROUND: So, I've been in love with this boy for about two years. All that time, I was getting mixed signals, but he's stuck around and I've stuck it out and little by little, we've actually started to nurture a real relationship over the past year. Only thing is, we don't call it that. He's "not ready for a relationship." But there are real emotions there, real time investment

What you should do is what you should have done ages ago. Break it off.
As soon as you sleep with him, your emotions REALLY start to get involved. You're not going to get what you want by sleeping with him. You're fooling yourself and wasting your time. Of course you want to get closer to him but you can't get close to someone who doesn't want to be intimate with you. I'm sorry. You're not going to get what you want with this guy, and continuing down the path you're on will only ensure that you will never get it.
You need to move on. This person is not available for the type of relationship you seek.
Welcome to the board s_hes,
It is going to be very hard to be in a real relatoinship with him. I think what you need to do right now is wait for him to contact you. The has issues he needs to work through, and I don't think they are anything you are going to be able to help him with.
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Welcome to the board s_hes,
Having sex hasn't made him want to be in the kind of relationship you want to be in.