he won't communicate. beyond frustrated
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he won't communicate. beyond frustrated
| Mon, 11-26-2007 - 2:34pm |
When I try to talk to my boyfriend about things I am not happy about he doesn't listen. No matter what the situation is, he blames me, insults me and doesn't change his behavior. The problem NEVER gets resolved. He gets extremely defensive and angry. Then I get even more upset. He even laughs at some of the things I say. Here is an example... On Saturday he had his son (from previous marriage) and his son's

Welcome to the board tnoot,
::No matter what the situation is, he blames me, insults me and doesn't change his behavior.
This is who he is. No matter how you approach it, this is how he acts and reacts to you.
::When I brought it up on Sunday he said he didn't invite me because he knows I hate kids and he was doing me a favor. I admit that, in the past (3 years ago) I did not want to hang out with his son, but that changed and we moved on. But if I tell him I'm upset because I don't get to spend time with them he basically blames me and brings up our old problems from 3 years ago.
Have you said:
Why is his behavior okay with you?
You've been given some great advice so far, but I've got a couple of questions.
He said that he doesn't call you because he doesn't want to be yelled at.