He won't do it
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| Tue, 06-05-2007 - 3:40pm |
I wonder anyone could offer some insight.... My soon to be husband and I have finally, after a year, of ignoring...then talking...then pushing for a doc visit.....discovered why he has ED problems (we have not had true intercourse because he can not get hard enough for penetration). It's been a long and sometimes frustrating year, but we discovered a few months ago that he has diabetes and it is now under control. We are both 34.
About 3 weeks ago the Doctor gave him Levitra and now, he won't take it! I am so frustrated because I keep asking him to take it and he always says "later, I'll take it 2night", then he will either stay up on the computer or watching TV until I fall asleep or fall asleep before me. I finally said to him yesterday how upset that makes me and that it's not just for him, but it effects me also. He won't even let me SEE the pills! WHAT is going on??? I've agreed to marry him even with our sexual issues because I love him, but knowing he can do something about the issue...and him choosing NOT to after all we've been through just hurts so much! I am really wondering if I should just call off the wedding.
This just seems so selfish of him. He just text'd me and said, "When I take it, I'll let you know, so you don’t have to ask me"....WTF????

Welcome to the board mchsm,
So sorry you are going through this.
Welcome to the board mchsm2004,
You might want to think about postponing the wedding until you get this worked out. I can't think of a reason why he won't have to take the medicine to fix this. Could he maybe be worried about side effects? Do you plan on having children? He would give you a reason why he won't take it?
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the other responses u got r right on!
CALL OFF THE WEDDING ASAP!!! U CANT MARRY A GUY THAT DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!!