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Heart wants to stay...
| Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:21am |
But this has gotten so complicated that my head tells me to step back.
| Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:21am |
But this has gotten so complicated that my head tells me to step back.
Welcome to the board hunneeb,
I can't say I blame you for wanting to take a HUGE step backwards.
I think this is very smart: "I feel like I should step back and allow him to make some decisions and follow through with them, as well as setting firm boundaries for her."
My best to you.
Is he divorced or still married? If he is still married, why isn't he pursuing the divorce?
I think stepping back for a bit is a good idea. He needs to have space to fully get over his last relationship and terminate it once and for all. Space will also give you a break from his Ex tormenting you.
If you are still available down the road, who knows what could happen. But for now, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship can form with all of the additional stresses.
Welcome to the board hunneeb,
I don't blame you for wanting to step back at the moment. I think that is the right thing to do. Tell him that you are interested in a relationship with him, but he has to do something about the boundaries with his ex. His ex obviously has some issues.
Why aren't they divorced after two years?
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They are still married, the paperwork has been drawn up since their separation but has not been filed.