help???

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Registered: 08-22-2008
help???
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Fri, 08-22-2008 - 4:27pm

A couple of days ago

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: freespiritnb
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 8:15pm
Your BF sounds very immature. It's odd that he would put this woman on the phone to talk to you in the first place. If she's just an acquaintance, why would he do that and force you into an uncomfortable situation? Since he doesn't seem to stand up for you, or protect you from other people's viciousness, you ought to make him a permanent ex and find a guy who will value you.
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Registered: 10-21-2004
In reply to: freespiritnb
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 10:02pm

Color me confused ... I have no idea what the 'perceived wrong' is that you did!?

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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: freespiritnb
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 9:48am

"Surely something is wrong when your so called boyfriend cares more about his reputation and others feelings than his girlfriend."

I agree with you. I wonder if he has done this before. This sounds very silly, I think both he and his friend's girlfriend are overreacting and being drama queens.

Consider turning this "off" again. Find someone who wants to be "on" with you all the time, this one sounds like a loser. I wouldn't accept someone who demanded that I apologize for nothing to a drama queen, and I don't think you should accept this either. It doesn't sound like he loves you, it sounds like he's attracted to you but cares more about himself.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: freespiritnb
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 7:41pm

Welcome to the board freespiritnb,


No, you aren't wrong.