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Registered: 05-21-2004
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 4:43pm
My boyfriend of 9 years and I broke up a few months agoa nd I started seeing someone else. One of the main reasons we broke up is because he didn't want to get married and I did. After he found out I was seeing someone he went out and bought a ring an proposed to me. I accepted but I just don't feel the same for him like I used too. I think more about this other guy that I dated. What should I do?
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Registered: 05-06-2003
In reply to: asorrells2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:34am
What should you do? I think you should give him back his ring. n/t
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Registered: 05-06-2004
In reply to: asorrells2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 6:40pm
You need to work this out before you get married. I would suggest marriage counseling. The counselor will be able to help both of you sort you feelings out. Did you address why he couldn't commit to you until you were gone? I speak from experience, problems will not go away. They have to be address head on if the relationship has any chance of surviving.
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In reply to: asorrells2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 6:22pm

I would give the ring back and really think about it.

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