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Sun, 07-27-2008 - 3:51pm
I have been married for almost years.Lately I dont like being married.I still love but I feel like he is one of my kids.We do have a 6 year old and 2 year old.He works full time and I work part time.All he does after work is fall asleep in short naps .This drives me crazy.He does minial household chores .Everything is on me.Our sex life is nonexistent.He has erectile dysfunction for 8 years now He is only 38 and needs Cialis and levitra to have sex.These pillls arent working anymore but he doesnt care.Our kids dont go to bed till after 9pm and by then I am exhuasted.Help.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: inursemom
Sun, 07-27-2008 - 5:49pm

Welcome to the board inursemom,


Well, I'd start with the kids and getting them in an earlier routine so that you (and he) have some time together and alone.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: inursemom
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:59pm

Welcome to the board inursemom,


I agree with Carrie's suggestion to try to get the kids put to bed at an earlier time.


Have you talked to your husband about the E.D. issue and about how the pills aren't working?


Have you talked to him about how you are feeling? Maybe it would help to have a weekend together without the kids.