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| Wed, 07-23-2008 - 11:59am |
my wife has been suffering from depression for the past couple of years, and her sex drive is a lot lower than what it used to be. fine no problem. Obvioulsy i do not turn it down when the oppurtunity arises? how many guys would? so we'll have sex maybe 2-3 times a month. We have discussed it before but i had asked her not to resort to her "personal device" when the urge comes up, because it rarely does and i obviously want to be there when it does. So sunday that just past, get home in the evening we go to bed and 5 minutes into it the vibrator starts going off? i'm like what the f$$k is that? we figure out what it was, and then my ego is crashed.
I figured its been 3-4 weeks, why not wait for me if you feel your horny for the first time in 4 weeks for 5 minutes? understand i cannot compete with a vibrator as i am not naive, but i feel as though i've been pretty patient with everything and then she goes as does something like that? its hard not to feel rejected in a situation like this.
what is the dealio? please help...perhaps you can answer to theheadoffice@yahoo.com because i'm not sure if i'll ever find this thread again? lol

Welcome to the board livin.the.dream,
Is your wife in counseling or on meds?
Welcome to the board,
Did you ask her why she resorted to using the vibrator? She going to any counseling or on any medication for her depression?
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