HELP!!!!

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Registered: 05-25-2008
HELP!!!!
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:16pm
Am I being a fool or what?? I am 28 years old with 2 lil girls and I had gotten involved with a guy friend for almost 2 years which I am still trying to understand why I am still with him? My everyday question, "What are we doing when we are not a couple?" Everything was good until I lied to him about slept with one of my guy friends. Now, I don't get why he still tripping when he's doing the same thing with my ex best friend and I ain't mad cuz we wasn't in a relationship or nothing but friends. I ended all my guy friends so I can be with him but that was a stupid thing I ever done cuz he still doesn't trust me thinking I want his friends and I was so mad. Don't get me wrong, I am fine and look good, of course guys going to Holla at me even though his friends tried to get me behind his back. All I am doing is trying to have some love in my life and spend time with that man beside GOD, my girls, family, and friends. I ask God all the times, is he going to bless me with a good man to provide for me and my girls??
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 11:59am

Hi crzypooh39,


Here's your previous post for others to catch up on your situation: GUY FRIEND


If the two of you haven't agreed on an 'open relationship' then the two of you are cheating on each other. Is that the role model you want your girls to learn from?


Consider the book: Are You the One for Me? by Barbara DeAngelis


My best to you.





angels

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: crzypooh39
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 12:55pm
It doesn't appear that he is making you happy or is what you are looking for. I don't see why you are still in this relationship. You can ask God for help, but sometimes you to have help yourself in the process. I think it is time to move on from this relationship. Best of luck to you.