HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| Wed, 04-18-2007 - 7:52pm |
Ok here's the problem me and my DH just don't click anymore. He drives me crazy. I work six days a week sick or not. He has Vacation days and he will take off because work is rough. I am a manager of a restuarant with an owner who doesn't care how I run the place and I don't dream of taking a day off. That is how I was raised. He took tonight off of work to "spend time "with me, but so far he has worked on his truck and talked to the neighbor. Well he did place his order for dinner with me. I run kids around from one activity to the next and what he wants is complicated but of course I will do it. There is never any me time or Me And Him time. WHAT DO I DO??????????????????????????????/

With the hours you work and lack of vacation time, it's no surprise you have no time for yourself. If I were you, I'd start by hiring someone who can manage the restaurant a couple of days per week and drop your working hours.
There's no point in working on the rest of your marriage if you're not there to begin with...
I agree with iv.
Until you have more time for just the two of you - there can never be a solution.
I am going through an issue where she has 2 wks of vacation only and she wants to take 1 wk of it to haul her parents to the east coast and experience things there while I am here -- but I could take my son someplace -- just him and I. Hmmmm - if I wanted a just son and I thing, I would not have gotten into a relationship with someone -- I would just go someplace -- find someone at a beach after the kid is asleep and do the same here at home. BUT...
My idea of vacations are to SHARE them together... we have only been together for a yr basically - not like we NEED vacations from eachother -- besides -- I DO NOT want to hear how this or that was on her vacation because she would not allow me to come only (actually submitting to mommie's pipe dream because mommie is paying for it all for her to drive her parents). I think it is just another small way to drive a wedge between us.
I AM IN SO MUCH PAIN RIGHT NOW -- with what is running in my head!!!