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| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 8:23pm |
My husband and I had to live in seperate countries for several month. When we met 3 month later and made love, he said i felt unbelievably loose and right away he started accusing me of cheeting. I love my hubby to death, I would never cheat on him I swear, but even though he believes my feelings, he more and more believe me having sex with somebody bigger him. I can never explain the way he has made me feel as a woman. The worst part was and still is I can not explain why my body ws like that, why was i so open, when i had not had sex for whole 3 month, I lost so much confidence in my sexuality and when my husband had to leave again and come back in few more month, i was sceared to death that I will feel loose again, even though i am not even touching myself...now 10 month have pased since then, we have this amazing love, care and romance between us, we are together in one country again and we have catching up on time lost, we have the greatest sex life and I do not feel loose...BUT...every other day, my husband would suddenly become cold and shut down on me, especially after I have attempted to show him I sexually want him, he goes in this depression and i know that his head is stuffed with thoughts on me cheeting on him...I am trying to be understanding, trying to do my beast to proove to him that I have nevr gone behind his back, but he believes it so deeply I can not change it...
PLEASE HELP, I feel soooo hurt, this is so unfair to both of us and I have no idea what to do...I am so sceard this is going to destroy us in a long run, I NEED my baby back, i need his trust, cause day after day I am loosing more and more of my confidence...and his, too, I see his hurt and I want to help...
PLEASE HELP, I feel soooo hurt, this is so unfair to both of us and I have no idea what to do...I am so sceard this is going to destroy us in a long run, I NEED my baby back, i need his trust, cause day after day I am loosing more and more of my confidence...and his, too, I see his hurt and I want to help...
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| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:52pm |
the only thing i can say is i've known of douching with vinegar and water it makes the vagina tight.the only thing is that you are not suppose to douche more than twice a month,also there are other minor side affects like becoming to dry.but for that theres ky jelly.also you can exercise the muscle in your vagina by squeezing and letting go. normally after you urinate.but you can do this anytime i did'nt know how to explaine it.i dont know what else to tell you.but thats a start for working on the vagina.oh yeah...and when ever you urinate,its good to do this because it's almost like when you don't wear a bra you eventually start to sag, if we don't train those muscles.same with the vagina, that might be part of where this problem is stemming from. good luck.
| Sun, 09-19-2004 - 2:21am |
i'm sorry but your husband is being ridiculous... even if you DID cheat on him with "someone bigger", it wouldn't cause you to get "looser" down there. your husband has
