Help! Am I Overreacting?

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Help! Am I Overreacting?
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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 2:42pm
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 7:24pm

You hardly ever fight because your relationship is long distance and you don't spend long enough periods of time together to have anything to fight about.

That, and your guy is clearly cheating on you with this girl. Or he really wants to. I'm not sure why you put up with him. He sounds like a nice guy in Email and on the phone, and you have great sex (as if this was a reason to stay with someone?). But you have to look at this situation for what it is. He's entertaining another girl and lying about it to you.

I wouldn't in a million years trust this man to be monogamous to you. Sorry.




Edited 1/16/2008 7:24 pm ET by eggbertshootsfire
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 9:31pm

Welcome to the board blissfullyunaware,


He's proven that he cannot be trusted with Michelle.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 01-17-2008 - 11:41am

Welcome to the board blissfullyunaware,


Given his history with Michelle, he shouldn't be having any sort of relationship with her. You could ask him to ask her not to attend the camping trip. I don't know if that would work or not. Does he agree with you that he shouldn't have contact with her?

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