Help! From committed to just dating
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Help! From committed to just dating
| Sun, 10-17-2004 - 11:19am |
One week ago i got mad at my boyfriend for spending time with a female friend instead of me. Two days later he took me to a renaissance festival for three hours. When he asked to take me home I got upset and started crying. I was upset that hhe didn't want to spend more time with me. His reasons was that: it was his one day off that week, he had some things to do for work and wanted some time by himself. Then he said he didn't want to be my boyfriend anymore, that we should just date (not sex only hugs and kisses).
So I said ok. From that day on until friday, I called him a few times and we talked fine. I didn't try to be clingy. Thursday i said i'd like to see him this weekend and he said "we'll see". Yesterday (saturday) i left a message on his cell phone saying "i hope you're having a good day. would like to talk with you tonight". He sent a text message saying "Im busy". I sent text message back saying "Ok. Talk with you later when you're free?" His message back: "Not tonight".
I'm afraid he doesn't want to see me anymore. What should I do? Do i wait and see if he'll try to see me? I've been trying not to be as clingy as i used to, hoping that would help. Help!!!!
So I said ok. From that day on until friday, I called him a few times and we talked fine. I didn't try to be clingy. Thursday i said i'd like to see him this weekend and he said "we'll see". Yesterday (saturday) i left a message on his cell phone saying "i hope you're having a good day. would like to talk with you tonight". He sent a text message saying "Im busy". I sent text message back saying "Ok. Talk with you later when you're free?" His message back: "Not tonight".
I'm afraid he doesn't want to see me anymore. What should I do? Do i wait and see if he'll try to see me? I've been trying not to be as clingy as i used to, hoping that would help. Help!!!!

You need to STOP contacting him altogether. Let him call you and ask to see you. If he does, great; if not, he's ready to move on. But you'll never know which it is if you keep calling him.
Sheri
Do yourself a favor and get involved in other projects besides a boy.