Help... don't understand boyfriend...!!!
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| Tue, 03-09-2004 - 2:08pm |
I have been dating someone for approximately 4 months.... Things started good however, he has his moods. He started introducing me to his family and friends and has told me very sincerely that he loves me... or is inlove with me. Oh... I am 26 and he is 25....
Even though things have been good.. they have also been rocky.... He was unemployed and this was causing him to have attitudes a lot. On Valentines Day he gave me a card saying how he had the most beautiful girl on his arm and how lucky he was... that he hoped and prayed he would be with me for a very long time and how things are going to get better.
Just recently, I attended my girl friends birthday party last Friday. I went with another friend (girl) of mine because I was not going to know anyone and my boyfriend had a dj party. When I got there a guy that I used to be friends with wound up going... Friends we were and that's it. My girl friend still hangs out with this guy friend and while I was at the party we thought it would be nice to all get together. This past weekend this guy from the party called me 5 times asking me to come out with him and my girl friend and some other people to bar hop. I told him that I was going to dinner with my boyfriend and to the movies but if plans changed I would let him know. I later on told this guy that I was not going to go... but he kept calling.
After the movie, my boyfriend brought me home and stayed for a little but when he left I felt like something was off..... I called him and asked and he said not to worry about it but I eventually got it out of him. He said that he was aggrevated that I answered the phone in the movie theater... That it was rude.. The movie still had 20 minutes before it was going to start and I picked up the phone to tell my friend to stop calling. Then he said that I went to a party last week and now this guy is constantly calling me.... makes him wonder what I"m doing when he's not around.... I asked him if he trusted me and he said he didn't know. So, then I asked that if I aggrevate him and if he doesn't trust me then why he's with me and his answer was "I don't know.. I must like aggrevation"... We later spoke about everything and he came over and things seemed like they were ok. Now... last night we were chatting on the computer and I was being nice saying how I wanted to see him tonight and he wasn't responding.... So, before I went to sleep I called him and he said that I was "busting his balls" because I kept asking him about tonite... I would think he would be happy I want to see him. I don't know what his problem is but ever since Saturday night he has had an attitude with me.... I don't know if it's because of this male friend calling or if he just has issues.. what do you think????? please help.
I am supposed to see him tonight. He is at work now but I am not even going to call him. A friend of mine tells me to get rid of him... saying he is insecure and jealous and has issues.... meanwhile I feel sad in my heart and want to work it out.... I don't know what to do.... Should I not call.... giving him this space may make him realize?? I don't know!!! HelP!
| Tue, 03-09-2004 - 4:06pm |
