First off you need to slow down, back up and think about things.
You have only dated the guy for 1 1/2 months, that is way too early to get to know someone, and know the kind of person they are. Usually most people are on their best behavior for the first few months. Do you really think it was wise to introduce your kids to someone you just started dating? You don't really know this person, things he did in his past or what he might be capable of.
You started flipping out after he didn't return your calls, Why? Have you discussed being in a exclusive committed relationship with him and you both agreed? If not, then he can do what he wants when he wants, he does not have to answer to you. Having sex with someone and assuming does not make a relationship. I don't blame him, I would tell you it was over also, after texting and calling like you did. That screams insecurity, neediness (that is not attractive to anyone male or female). And bringing the drama of your ex into the relationship is not going to go well with most people.
You actually believe he laid in bed with his ex and talked about you? That is possible but not very probable. You told him it was over, Why should he call you back? Maybe he still has feelings for his ex (considering he laid in bed with her) or maybe he doesn't want all the drama that has happened in your relationship at this early stage.
Work on yourself, get yourself in a good and happy place. STOP calling the man, actions speak a lot louder than words. His actions are saying you are not high on his list of priorities. You have children that need a well balanced, happy mother. Have some self-respect for yourself and love yourself, you have to have that before you can receive that from someone else. Then find someone that can give that to you. He is not the one though. Good luck.
First off you need to slow down, back up and think about things.
You have only dated the guy for 1 1/2 months, that is way too early to get to know someone, and know the kind of person they are. Usually most people are on their best behavior for the first few months. Do you really think it was wise to introduce your kids to someone you just started dating? You don't really know this person, things he did in his past or what he might be capable of.
You started flipping out after he didn't return your calls, Why? Have you discussed being in a exclusive committed relationship with him and you both agreed? If not, then he can do what he wants when he wants, he does not have to answer to you. Having sex with someone and assuming does not make a relationship. I don't blame him, I would tell you it was over also, after texting and calling like you did. That screams insecurity, neediness (that is not attractive to anyone male or female). And bringing the drama of your ex into the relationship is not going to go well with most people.
You actually believe he laid in bed with his ex and talked about you? That is possible but not very probable. You told him it was over, Why should he call you back? Maybe he still has feelings for his ex (considering he laid in bed with her) or maybe he doesn't want all the drama that has happened in your relationship at this early stage.
Work on yourself, get yourself in a good and happy place. STOP calling the man, actions speak a lot louder than words. His actions are saying you are not high on his list of priorities. You have children that need a well balanced, happy mother. Have some self-respect for yourself and love yourself, you have to have that before you can receive that from someone else. Then find someone that can give that to you. He is not the one though. Good luck.
Welcome to the board aerdna22006,
Sorry you deleted your post before I got to it..... I hope things are better.