help me:long distance rel.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
help me:long distance rel.
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Tue, 09-21-2004 - 10:19pm
hi!i have a boyfriend.We are really far away from eachother right now bec of my parent's decision....at first,i thought it would be easy to deal with because he is really faithful!i hope!but as days pass i feel thas as if i was the only one striving and working for our relationship.i know im the one who left but it is about being a COUPLE right?so we both have to exert some effort!he said he dosn't have money that's why he cant text me or something but...sometimes i find out that he goes out with his friends.many girls like hi,m and i am quite afraid about that thing....i dont know what to do!help me please!!!what would you do if you were on my posision!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2004
Wed, 09-22-2004 - 5:51am
Hi,

I think you must first ask yourself whether or not you trust him.

How much trust have you put in this relationship.

If you are still hesitant, then please look back at the reason why u decided to be with your current boyfriend? Is it out of true love?

Good luck