Help-my friend hates my boyfriend!
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|Wed, 06-04-2003 - 12:30pm|
Recently I chose to get back together with a man that I have been in a relationship with for almost four years now. I told him we had to take it slow, and that if things were going to be right, he has to prove it to me. That is harsh, but the situation is very sticky, but I do want it to work out.
My quandry is this, my friend (best friend) hates him-I totally trashed him while we were broken up, she knows every "bad" thing (no physical abuse or anything like that) he's ever done, and now she says that while she won't tell me how to live my life, she doesn't want to be around him for awhile. They actually got in each others face and argued while we were broken up, pretty bad. She is having her birthday party in a couple of weeks, and says that while she hopes I will come and stay for awhile, she doesn't want him there. Boyfriend is crushed and feels that I am choosing her over him - I think it is ugly of her to act this way about the party, but it IS her party and up until last week, I never thought he'd be in my life again. I have told boyfriend that she has put up a brick wall as far as he is concerened, and after this one event, I won't go without him to any similar event. Thank you all for your opinions! CATS