Help! Need to know what my ex's actions and words mean!!

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Registered: 05-27-2003
Help! Need to know what my ex's actions and words mean!!
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Tue, 10-04-2011 - 12:30am

Hi there,

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Registered: 03-27-2003

So you have been with him 6 yrs and lived with him for 5.

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Registered: 07-13-2011
Could there possibly be someone else in the picture? I ask this because he seems torn and it makes me wonder why..... People who have affairs say the exact words he said to you: " I love you but I'm not in love with you." almost as if they like the excitement only a new relationship can provide. Time to get tough. Don't let him take advantage of you. Definitely ask him what was up last time you saw him. Go with your gut and what it is telling you. Good luck
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Registered: 12-22-2007

Jduci, you were with this guy for 6 years.

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Registered: 12-22-2007

>>People who have affairs say the exact words he said to you: " I love you but I'm not in love with you." <<

People who aren't having affairs say it too.

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Registered: 05-18-2009

Whoa. I totally agree with the others, after living with him for five years, your post honestly sounds like it was written by someone who barely knew this guy for a month...

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I agree w/ undercovercrab--you just can't keep up this kind of in between relationship.

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Registered: 05-20-2009

Guess what?

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Registered: 07-04-2011
I think its over for you too. It's sometimes hard to cut the ties . We are not conditioned to be alone.6 years is a long time you miss him and he missing you also....but your living off pass emotions not present feeling . You need to brake the communication off totally with him. He move out and on he still cares about your feelings. That why he still seeing you.. love your selfish enough to let him go...........< queen>