I agree w/ undercovercrab--you just can't keep up this kind of in between relationship.
Whoa. I totally agree with the others, after living with him for five years, your post honestly sounds like it was written by someone who barely knew this guy for a month...
>>People who have affairs say the exact words he said to you: " I love you but I'm not in love with you." <<
People who aren't having affairs say it too.
Jduci, you were with this guy for 6 years.
So you have been with him 6 yrs and lived with him for 5.