Help please I have lost my husband

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Help please I have lost my husband
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Tue, 10-23-2007 - 2:44pm

My husband split with me about a month ago.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 3:03pm

Welcome to the board clebensieg,


If you want to try and save your marriage, than talk to your husband. Tell him that you still love him, and that you think things can be saved. Ask him if he is willing to try again.


This way no matter what happens you will know that you tried and won't have to wonder about what could have been. In order for things to be fixed though, both of you have to be willing to want to work things out.


Best of luck to you.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 1:02pm

Welcome to the board clebensieg,


He could be testing the water with you so to speak, but I think it will be up to you to set boundaries and enforce them.

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 1:14pm
Thank you for your input.
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Registered: 07-16-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:39pm
I'm really sorry you're going through this. I can't offer different advice than what's already been said. Just wanted to show support...
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Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:56pm
Thank you very much!
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Wed, 10-24-2007 - 6:06pm

Why not ask him if there is anything else he wants or has on his mind? At this point the best idea is to be forthright (though not demanding or critical) - just ask him how he's doing and if he needs to talk? Accept whatever answer he offers. If he does want to talk, get together for