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| Thu, 04-12-2007 - 8:55pm |
Okay, so heres the thing. Im dating a really nice guy, we’ve been going out for 3 months or so. But I find myself completely bored, I mean having to meet the family and do social things with him and his friends and that. We haven’t really got a sex life, which is pretty pathetic and the less we have it, the less I want it. I don’t really care if I see him, so which gets me thinking, if I don’t care do I really like him?
I mean when we hang out we have fun together and I like hanging out with him. But its more like when we do its okay, but if we aren’t then I don’t mind. Wondering if it stems out to that I’ve been single for almost 2 years, and maybe I just don’t know how to share my life anymore? I use to have fun meeting guys and flirting and going out clubbing and things like that. But now I seem so bored, having bbq’s and doing stuff like that.
Maybe I’m just missing that romantic feeling for him. Ah I’m so freaking confused. We are going away for a week so maybe I’ll have more of an idea after that?
Anyone else gone through this? Or any similar feelings? Help?

Welcome to the board bubblylaurap,
You've only been dating 3 months or so, the honeymoon stage, so I'm guessing this isn't a 'love connection' but a great friendship.