help please so confused

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Registered: 04-12-2007
help please so confused
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Thu, 04-12-2007 - 8:55pm

Okay, so heres the thing. Im dating a really nice guy, we’ve been going out for 3 months or so. But I find myself completely bored, I mean having to meet the family and do social things with him and his friends and that. We haven’t really got a sex life, which is pretty pathetic and the less we have it, the less I want it. I don’t really care if I see him, so which gets me thinking, if I don’t care do I really like him?

I mean when we hang out we have fun together and I like hanging out with him. But its more like when we do its okay, but if we aren’t then I don’t mind. Wondering if it stems out to that I’ve been single for almost 2 years, and maybe I just don’t know how to share my life anymore? I use to have fun meeting guys and flirting and going out clubbing and things like that. But now I seem so bored, having bbq’s and doing stuff like that.

Maybe I’m just missing that romantic feeling for him. Ah I’m so freaking confused. We are going away for a week so maybe I’ll have more of an idea after that?

Anyone else gone through this? Or any similar feelings? Help?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-13-2007 - 12:28pm
What kind of guys do you usually go out with that would provide more "stimulation," shall we say? What kind of relationships have you been in before? Are they disfunctional? Problematic?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 04-13-2007 - 1:59pm

Welcome to the board bubblylaurap,


You've only been dating 3 months or so, the honeymoon stage, so I'm guessing this isn't a 'love connection' but a great friendship.