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| Tue, 06-01-2004 - 7:26am |
when i met my partner, it wasn't love at first sight and i didnt really like him but he is a nice man and i thought as time goes on i will like and love him . i became pregnant and never want abortion. so i deceided to have the baby and we stsrted living together. but as time goes on i realised he is not my kind of man at all cos we didnt have any courtship.
now my baby is two and and have told him i dont feel right about the relationship but he wont listen cos he loves me so much and doesnt want to loose me . but i dint love him.again he doesnt satisfy me sexually.
i met someone mr mm .everything i want in a man,i ddidnt have a choice i deceided to have an affair. mr mm want to be with me and talking about marriage.mr mm loves me wish i know. and he said he will give me time to sort my self out with my partner.
my partner got to know amout mr mm , which i did intentionally so that he can aloww me to go.it so hard for me to leave cos he's a friend to my sister, and all my family feels he's a good man and feels he's right for me.
but am not happy with cos i dont love and dont feel for him.i want to laeve to be happy cos i need to be happy for my baby to be happy as well. i wnat to live a normal life and i stop this pretence when all is not well.
pls tell me how i do let him know i want to leave. though we've beeen through together when things were really rough but he's alright now and i dont minnd. i want to be happy and be with some i love and adore.
but my family pressure is much and they saying that if i leave him what will people say.
i cant live my life for poeple.
tell me what to do. cos he was introdeced to me by my sister.but i regreted ever going into the relationship. most important is that we are bot not happy together and we deserve to be happy. he's threatened to kill himself if i leave him.but i pray he will find some who will make him happy and me too.
pls advice me
now my baby is two and and have told him i dont feel right about the relationship but he wont listen cos he loves me so much and doesnt want to loose me . but i dint love him.again he doesnt satisfy me sexually.
i met someone mr mm .everything i want in a man,i ddidnt have a choice i deceided to have an affair. mr mm want to be with me and talking about marriage.mr mm loves me wish i know. and he said he will give me time to sort my self out with my partner.
my partner got to know amout mr mm , which i did intentionally so that he can aloww me to go.it so hard for me to leave cos he's a friend to my sister, and all my family feels he's a good man and feels he's right for me.
but am not happy with cos i dont love and dont feel for him.i want to laeve to be happy cos i need to be happy for my baby to be happy as well. i wnat to live a normal life and i stop this pretence when all is not well.
pls tell me how i do let him know i want to leave. though we've beeen through together when things were really rough but he's alright now and i dont minnd. i want to be happy and be with some i love and adore.
but my family pressure is much and they saying that if i leave him what will people say.
i cant live my life for poeple.
tell me what to do. cos he was introdeced to me by my sister.but i regreted ever going into the relationship. most important is that we are bot not happy together and we deserve to be happy. he's threatened to kill himself if i leave him.but i pray he will find some who will make him happy and me too.
pls advice me
