Help plz

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Registered: 02-13-2007
Help plz
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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 3:22pm

Well me and my boyfriend have a son. He broke up with me when I was 5 months pregnant. But now 8 months later we are trying to be together again. And that's what I wanted. But now he won't have sex with me because he is scared he will get me pregnant again.. which I would understand but in those 8 months that we were apart he had sex with like 5 other girls which he could have just as easily got them pregnant.

Also he says he cares about me but all he does everytime I go to his house is play video games or watch t.v. So pretty much he ignores me the whole 8 or so hours I am there with him.

So my question is do think there is anything I can do to make things better between us or are we just not ment to be and should I just break things off with him before I get seriously hurt... AGAIN!!

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: lettersbad86
Thu, 08-30-2007 - 12:18pm
If you love loving people, than concentrate on giving your baby all your love for a while.
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Registered: 02-13-2007
In reply to: lettersbad86
Thu, 08-30-2007 - 12:48pm
ooo no no no plz don't get me wrong. It does not matter if I am in a good or bad or sad mood. The second I see my son smile at me I can't help but smile back. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love him with all my heart and that will never change.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: lettersbad86
Thu, 08-30-2007 - 2:32pm

Sorry. That post sounded rude, but that is not how I meant it. I just meant it probably would be a good idea to just be single for a while and concentrate on your son. Newborns are hard work and having to worry about the stress of these relationships makes it even harder.


Good luck to you.

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