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| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 11:19am |
I have been married for 6 yrs now but from last 2 yrs I am having affair with my boy- friend. I am so much in love with him but I also love my husband very much.. But now my boy-friend is getting married and he has made me promise that we won't see each other no-more. The very thought of losing him is killing me. I don't know what to do and on top of that I am pregnant. I am emotionally so weak these days that all I do the entire day is cry. I can't break my marriage and I am trying my best to let it go with my boy friend so that we both can live our own lives but no matter what I do I can't just let it go. Please could soemone sugest me what would be the best thing to do??? I really need help...
Edited 7/2/2004 11:27 am ET ET by akrin
Edited 7/2/2004 11:27 am ET ET by akrin

I also suggest you get some counseling right now. It will give you a safe place to explore yourself, emotions, actions, choices, decisions and figure out what's missing in your marriage.
To get over the other guy, you have to grieve for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been. Vent, cry, grieve for what is no more.
Carrie
Sounds like you've already dug your hole, all that's left to do is for you