help with a woman that has been abused

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-2007
help with a woman that has been abused
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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 9:59pm

hello everyone, i am a 46 yr old male dating at 40 yr old woman for 9 yrs now, we have been engage for 4 yrs, and her 19 yr old son lives with us. we want for nothing, we never argue, she is my soul mate, there is nothing we cant do together. the only problem we have is that i have caught her cheating on me 5 times and i keep taking her back. she has had 4 jobs since we have moved in together and has had a sexual relation with someone at every job. this last time i caught her text messaging a 17 yr old guy in highschool, xxx text messaging.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 10:54pm

Welcome to the board mrmichaelangelo,


I don't even know where to start.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2005
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 1:03am

She will continue to do what she does and throw out the excuses that work.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 1:03am

Respect yourself enough to say, this is enough... she's cheated on you 5 times that you know of, and you're still with her?