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|Wed, 06-22-2011 - 7:35pm|
ngMOMof3 (iVillage Member) Jun 19I need advice, which is why I came to iviallage. My husband has crossed many boundaries over the last couple of years between FB and texting. I have been with him since I was 14, so I think it's 24 years now. I have always just worn blinders to ignore things, but when FB came along, bringing these online friends into my living room, forced my blinders off. I do not like what I see. I do not like what I have actually not only put up with, but allowed. Without getting into the whole story I want and need him to leave. The issue is that we have a 7 year old daughter, and I am a store manager in retail, so my hours are messed up. Not a 9-5 Monday -Friday job. Luckily our sons are 18 and 21 so for now they can watch her. What do I do when she goes back to school in the fall and I need to be in work at 6 AM? By then the 18 year old will be at boot camp for the Navy, and the 21 year old works. How do I get someone to be here at atleast 5AM? I do not want to stay with him because I need a babysitter, and unfortunately that is the only reason I am still here. I/we both deserve to be happy....right? I'm so lost at this point I feel like I am losing my mind. Even when I kick him out I'm calling him like a baby to come back. Help.....