here is the update

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Registered: 08-04-2004
here is the update
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 12:48am
Well its been a week now that i posted about the abusive hubby. Well tonight did it some of you won't be happy w/what i did this week but i thought that just maybe if i don't say anything about his drinking after work that i should just keep my mouth shut all week things would be better. Well i was right and wrong on that note. first of all i took my boys to all their practices for football even left before he got home from work b/c he was at the bar (you can only smell it everynight when i got home from practice) well i never said a thing about it. but it has totally killed me inside myself. that is what i get i guess well i just got to my parents house about 15 minutes ago. b/c tonight the wonderful guy he is (right) let one of the boys have a friend over and of course i was just about a sleep and here comes the yelling from their room over a game (you know how kids or should i say boys get). anyway i couldn't take it so i got up started to pack up a few things for the morning and got my daughter up and told my husband that i could do this and didnt want to start fight so i am going to my parents house. and he of all times said " sorry i shouldn't have let him have a friend over. i love you and okay i will see you tomorrow" no yelling like always no nothing just okay i can do this tomorrow i am going to tell him that i can't do this keeping my mouth shut when it is killing me and all i want to do is yell and scream at him. weather or not that will solve anything i don't know but i will let you know. thanks to all of you for the help. take care and god bless u all.