he's been gone for 3 weeks now

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Registered: 07-21-2005
he's been gone for 3 weeks now
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Sat, 04-07-2007 - 11:53pm
so my husband left me 3 weeks ago to live with his dad. he said that he felt like we were just friends or roommates instead of being married & that he isn't in love w/ me anymore ( but still loves me of course). so we have been spending time together a few days a week trying to work on things. i am ready for him to move back but he really doesn't want to. i feel like i am building a bigger wall everyday that he is gone, just so it doesn't hurt more if he decides that he wants a divorce. i am scared that if he comes back in a month & wants to work things out, i will be totally over it. i feel that everyday my anger toward him gets worse, making my heart colder towards him....i really don't want this to happen. what should i do? any advice is appreciated. by the way, we are both 26 & have been married for almost 4 yrs.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 12:21pm

Welcome goddess_boutiquegirl,


Would your husband be willing to go to marriage counseling with you? Has he mentioned any reason why his feelings toward you changed?


I can understand you being angry, but I think if he comes back in a month or so that you will still love him. It just make take a while to get over the hurt he has caused you by leaving.


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