He's A Cheater And Admits It...
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| Tue, 03-23-2004 - 6:43am |
He is a cheater. He cheated on his exwhife, and he told me flat out, that he is not a faithful person. He says that he tries to be, but that self-control is an issue for him. One of my guy friends says, "All men cheat, your best bet is to find a Good Cheater, and stick with him", and then threw in "If he admits to it now, he is a good man."
While I don't buy that, it makes me wonder if he might be right. I am very dissapointed, I was really starting to like this guy a lot. And it stings a little. I have been let down really badly in the past by men, and I don't want to put myself in a situation where I am risking my heart, OR my health.
I also am not out to change any man, but this one seems so awesome, it is hard to immagine he could really be this bad. Should I give him a shot? Maybe the solution is just to NOT have sex with him, but remain close? Or just turn and run now?
What do you think?

No, but do not pass go with this guy, do not collect your $200.
James
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:::One of my guy friends says, "All men cheat, your best bet is to find a Good Cheater, and stick with him", and then threw in "If he admits to it now, he is a good man."
That actually tells the character of your male friend as well. People that say 'everyone cheats' it just means that they cheat.
A woman (F) at my boyfriend's work was talking to my boyfriend's cubemate - a married woman (L). They were talking about 'cheating' - L said, just because you, F cheat, doesn't mean that everyone does.
Carrie