he's great....but....

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Registered: 06-01-2004
he's great....but....
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 12:46pm

We've been together for almost 10 years all toll. And, with every day he gets better except for in matters that involve his family....a family that is FAAAAAAAAAAR from ideal.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 2:57am

Pcenluv, some of their behaviour would gross me out.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 12:06am

I have to agree with the others!

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Registered: 07-24-1997
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 4:55pm
pcenluv67 wrote:

When I first met him back in "03 it was easy to see that we were from two entirely different background but little did I know...ohterwise I would have NEVER...did I say NEVER have persued it or continued.

So are you saying that because his family's habits are personally disgusting to you, you'd have ditched him if you'd known?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 3:29pm

Hmmm, sounds a lot like my in-laws' house (except for the minipads on the table).

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 1:25pm

Let me see if I understand this: you have a happy relationship with this man in every area except his family.

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 1:20pm

It sounds gross and disgusting, but for her it is acceptable, so I don;t tihnk you can do anything about it. Personally, I would not sleep there, are there any hotels nearby?