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He's nice to every single girl
| Sun, 03-07-2004 - 6:25pm |
I've been dating my guy for 3 years. Everything is good except I don't trust him because he is so set on pleasing other girls. He cares more about hurting their feelings than mine. He always says to me "I say yes to what they ask so I avoid conflict and I don't get any of their attitudes.", but he's getting mine because he can't say no. And when he does actually say no he makes up an excuse about why he is saying no. I'm sick of it. He keeps saying he is allowed to have friends who are girls, and yes he is allowed, but he should not care more about hurting them than me. What should I do? Do you think he is cheating either physically or emotionally?

Can you life this way? Because it's his character and it's not going to change because he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong.
If you can't, then it's time to move on.
Carrie
Tiffany
As you are so uneasy and uncomfortable with his behavior, it seems as if this is not the right relationship for you. Clearly, he has problems in the way he relates to women. You feel he cares or is more considerate of them than you. Why be with someone who is not able to be considerate of your feelings,
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