HE'S NOT HAPPY WITH ME
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HE'S NOT HAPPY WITH ME
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 8:27pm |
HELLO,
I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 1 YEAR , AND IM FACING PROBLEMS WITH MY HUSBAND. HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE'S NOT HAPPY WITH ME AND WE HAVE TO LEAVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE ITS BETTER FOR ME AND FOR HIM.
I LOVE HIM AND I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM OR I CAN'T IMAGINE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM.I NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME WHAT CAN I DO TO KEEP HIM BESIDE ME OR I MAKE HIM HAPPY .
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE
THANK YOU
I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 1 YEAR , AND IM FACING PROBLEMS WITH MY HUSBAND. HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE'S NOT HAPPY WITH ME AND WE HAVE TO LEAVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE ITS BETTER FOR ME AND FOR HIM.
I LOVE HIM AND I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM OR I CAN'T IMAGINE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM.I NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME WHAT CAN I DO TO KEEP HIM BESIDE ME OR I MAKE HIM HAPPY .
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE
THANK YOU

If he is not happy you can not force him to stay. If you truly feel that you can not live without him then I suggest you get counseling to help you through this. You will probably see clearly why he left and realize how unhealthy the marriage is/was once you do. Then you will be able to move on.
Once he leaves you can either not deal well or deal well. Which do you want to do?
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Carrie
It just isn't fair for him to criticize all the time, especially since it sounds like he really doesn't have anything to complain about. I think our emotions, though not fool-proof, tell us when something's wrong. I think your loneliness is telling you. Best of luck to you!