He's Silent

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2005
He's Silent
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Sat, 04-14-2007 - 7:09pm

My goodness,

He's been silent for now 6 days withno answer....This is what happend. We meet on line. I prosued him but he made the first move quickly to tell me he wanted to see me. We exchanged numbers and made plans. The first attempt to see eachother not follow through, he didn't or call like he mentioned and the meeting never took place. he later apoligized. I stood around a bit weary but seeing his caring personality for me, i gave it another chance. Weeks went by and I finally had it . After we tried again to meet for lunch this time. He told me he never got confirmation of lunch, therefore communication was broken to meet. I was done. He again said sorry ( WHAT !!) after I said it did not work out I and was ready to leave. He e-mail quiclky to tell me again sorry (WHAT !!), but I want to take you out still. I ignored his question . My trust has lessened and I became weary and upset. I wanted to see him face to face and find out what he's about.

Last conversation was sunday on phone this same day. I told him we had to meet. Online communication was excellent and a bond between us, it was worth exploring. We both agreed we should meet, even after I had been let down 3 times. HE this time he'd call..........he never did. He eft me hanging, did not return my text, phone, or e-mail.To confirm meeting. His silence is confusing. And most of all his actions confused me as well. I was ready to leave the first time to avoid heartache but he pulled me in several times with his sorry's and persistance.

unanserwed ??

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2005
Sat, 04-14-2007 - 7:38pm


Make like a bovine.. and MOOOOOve on! :)

Seriously, this guy is not worth your time. Who knows why he playing this game with you, but even if you did manage to meet up with him now a relationship that starts on that kind of foot can only mean bad news. You deserve better.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2005
Sat, 04-14-2007 - 9:30pm
Thanks : )
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 8:13am
I agree with Stroumphette: let it go and move on. He's enjoying the excitement of the online correspondence, but he doesn't want to meet you--ever. Maybe he's married or has a serious girlfriend, but whatever the reason is, he isn't planning to be seen in public with you. You deserve better.