HigSchool Flame

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Registered: 08-11-2006
HigSchool Flame
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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 12:53pm

Hello,

The long and short of it is my very good friend from high school and I got reacquainted two years ago after 6 years of being out of touch. at that time he had been dating someone for 9 months. though never intimate in high school, we've been intimate a few times since reconnecting. we never talked about it going further. he's now told me that he proposed to his girlfriend and that he wants me to be his best man-woman. i've agreed but am beginning to realize that my feelings for him are stronger than i realized.

how can i get over these feelings and not ruin not only our friendship but also his wedding???

please help!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 1:16pm

Welcome to the board lailaa,


This guy cheats on his girlfriend, now fiance with you and he wants you to be his 'Best man/woman' ?

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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 3:09pm
You slept with someone who had a girlfriend? Think about that. It won't last if you were to tell him your feelings and he left her. Neither one of you could trust the other. Let him go and get married and cheat on his poor wife.
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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:12pm

I think that's at the very least really tacky on his part and at worst pretty cruel to ask you to be his best "woman" in his wedding given your history and that he cheated on his wife to be with you.

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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:24pm
THANK YOU!!!
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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:24pm
THANK YOU!!!!!
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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: lailaa81
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:26pm
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!