Like him too much??

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Like him too much??
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:03pm
This morning my bf said that he thought I liked him too much. Don't understand what he meant by that. I asked him if he wanted me to like him less just to see what he would said, and he said, "no, come here and give me a hug." I am just confused about what he meant by I liked him too much. Does he not like me or he is worrying about the seriousness of our relationship. Please help. Thanks
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Registered: 07-20-2004
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:40pm
I told my BF once that I thought I loved him too much and what that meant to me was that my feelings were progreesing faster than I anticipated. Maybe you show him too much attention and should not make your feelings so obvious. It sounds like a game but guys sometimes like aloof detachment.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:46pm
ctara1981...

Your b/f was dangling 'the worm' in front of you...and you took the bait! Haven't you ever been with a man who was completely aware of your 'feelings of love'...but pretends that he doesn't have a clue about them..in order to get a reaction from you?

Men do this to women ALL the time!

Lighten up about this...at least for now. If the man in your life starts doing this constantly (like once or twice a week)...tell him you've changed your mind and that you're beginning to have 'deeper feelings' for the paperboy and the postman! :)

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-12-2003
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 3:49pm
Sounds like guilt to me. He has some reason for thinking he doesn't deserve to be liked. Then he covered it with the hug thing. It sounds shady to me.