His Deadbeat Ex Wife

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His Deadbeat Ex Wife
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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 10:07am

My husband of 2 years and I have a blended family. We have 6 kids between us, 4 which are at home.

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 7:21pm

Uh, shouldn't Adam and/or his dad and/or mom

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 7:33pm

Well, the second job is not to support his hobbies.

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 7:41pm

Mmm, that seems like a distinction without a difference, if the hobbies are what caused the bills to be not get paid.


And I think the more you do, the less the people responsible (Adam and his parents) will do so you need to create that vacuum for them, even if it means being uncomfortable.

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 7:48pm

'Well, the second job is not to support his hobbies.

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 7:58pm

????

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:06pm

Adam is 17 going on 13.

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In reply to: mdwz
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:26pm
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In reply to: mdwz
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:41am
That definition is my husband.... definately not me!
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In reply to: mdwz
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 3:57pm

I have to disagree with you there.

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In reply to: mdwz
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 4:33pm

Its not that I want to control the situation because I really could care less, but my children are here with us, and this affects them!