His priorities are screwed up

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
His priorities are screwed up
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Thu, 04-05-2007 - 3:24pm
I need help!! My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 12. Lately all we've been doing, for the last 5 months is fight. He lies about stupid stuff, (like who wentto the house, or who started working at his job) and also was selling pot (which I highly disapprove of) and hid it from me and lied about it when he got caught. Anything that he an think of, we are fighting about. he's lied about going out with his friends and whether he smoked pot or not. And, his friends come over constantly. EVERYDAY if they don't go over they are calling him, especally when he's off and i'm at work. I wouldn't mind this, but then i come home to find a dirty house because he's been busy entertainig his friends in my garage (who smoke weed). he says i am constantly pissed off, and when i ask him the reason behind me being angry, he shuts down. this last monday night was the last straw. he was over an hour late (and the monday before that 1/2 hour and the Monday before that he stayed out till 2 p.m.) and i told him i wasn't playin his games anymore and told him to leave. what do i do? am i wrong? HELP!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 04-05-2007 - 5:35pm

Welcome to the board fedup1001 - I think your name says it all.


Personally, I don't think you are wrong and trying to talk to someone under the influence is like trying to talk to the drug - this is just my opinion.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 04-05-2007 - 6:04pm

I'm thinking about his drug use and drug dealing...... do you have children? If so, I'd advise you to separate immediately.

I'd also be raising his drug use and drug growing in child access hearings. Make sure you take some photos/video footage before you leave. Evidence.

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