hmmm.

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Registered: 05-01-2007
hmmm.
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Tue, 05-01-2007 - 9:25pm

Wish I would have read the terms and conditions to know I cant delete this crap

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 12:56pm

When two people are together for such a long time, especially when they're young, they often do need time to be on their own and have space. It sounds as though he is going through changes, growing, and that you are feeling left out.

Build up your own life. Meet new people, grow and see if you can build a full, happy life of your own. If he's pulling away, the best thing to do is to give him space and create a new, full life of your own. Is he dating? Find that out. It's important to know what's going on. If he is, then it would probably be better for you to let this go. If he's not, then perhaps the two of you just need some space in the relationship to explore yourselves some more.

Sit down and talk with him openly and honestly. Find out what's really going on and what he wants now.

Best wishes,

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 5:23pm

Hi yagirlizfly and welcome to the board,


High School relationship are very hard, especially when you go to two different schools.