Hope/closure..which one should I have?
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| Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:04am |
I've been crying and crying...all I do is think about him and all the wonderful memories we had together. He told me that in a few months we will get together and re-evaluate the relationship. Basically he believes that if he does what he needs to do, then one day he may come back saying "I now grew up and appreciate what we had together." And yes, I know people will say I don't deserve this kind of treatment, but I love this guy with all that I have. I've been trying to date others but there isn't any sparks at least on my side because I feel like I've emotionally died ever since he left.
I'm hoping that he will realize that he misses me soon, the relationship was left up in the air and he keeps telling me that if we're meant to be together, we'll be. Well, in my heart I really truly believe 100% that we are meant for one another-we clicked in so many ways as friends and always had incredible chemistry-plus I loved his family and he loved mine.
It's hard to understand what he's been thinking. Yes he's probably out there dating, but what is his heart telling him? Am I just wasting my time here thinking he's coming back or could this just be a passing phase that he needs to get out of his system??? I'm so sad and I'm so tempted to let him know how I feel. Should I let him know I'm sad or pretend I'm fine?? Any advice would be appreciated...Thank you.

I hope you feel better. Try going out with friends and surrounding yourself with people that make you laugh and support you. It really does help when you have a strong support group the hug you and to let you cry on their shoulders.
Feel better! Know that there are other guys out there just waiting to find you:) And if you are going to get back together let him know how much he hurt you and that he can't do this to you ever again. If (when?) I get back with my guy, I am laying down the law!!
Its not good to get your hopes up. I have been trying my best to move on... and who knows... maybe one day our ex-bfs will snap out of it and want to be with us. But at least we are not sitting around waiting and we will have the power to decide what is best for us.
Good luck! Stay busy!
Carrie